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Affi
02-01-2005, 10:01 AM
Hi,
I’ve got many problems - again! /images/graemlins/grin.gif
Once I always was happy, but now I'm not more very often.
I don't know why.
At first I thought it only would be a short stage but it is not, its already for a long time.
There r so many things which r disturbing me.
Sometimes I think nobody does recognise me and if then they don't belive me what I say.
Nobody does takes me serious. Nobody: Not my friends, not my family, nobody, ...
Do u know the feelding u don't belong where u r?
Do u know that? Thats that, what I always feel the last time.
And if I want to talk to a friend about all my problems I can't. I don't know y.
I know I could trust them and I do ... but if I want to tell them something I'm not able to, I don't know y.
...
Do u know the feeling to think u r different than the other people. Different on an other way.
There r many people who r different than the other people, but most they r different on a nice way. But I feel often I'm different on a way which is not normal!
And an other problem is, that I'm not able make a deep friendship.
If somebody comes near to me (emotional) then most I go one step back. A psychological friend from me says, that I'm scared to loose a person like I've lost already, but I don't think its the right way always to go a step back.

And:
Do u know that feeling?
U like some body or its more than that and u want to be together with that person. This person also wants to and if u r together it doesn't work, but if u r not together it also doesn't work.
This moment I feel so and it makes me frustrated! /images/graemlins/frown.gif

And I've also still got the other problems, but I don'T want to write them here because they r all in the other Threads form me. /images/graemlins/wink.gif

Please don't think I'm crazy or anything else, because I'm not. I'm only a guy who has got problems with everything around him! ^^
cu,
Andi

Steff
02-04-2005, 01:57 PM
i know what u mean... especially the thing that u wanna talk to someone, know u can trust him or her but u can't talk to him/her... don't know why...

and i also take one step back if people try to come nearer...

everybody has problems, some people can talk about it, some not... i'm so happy to have this board here... it's easier to write about your feelings and so on...

but whatever, i'm sure in a few weeks or months everything will be okay in ur life.

but some problems or fears never leave u alone... /images/graemlins/frown.gif

Affi
02-05-2005, 01:18 AM
which of your fears do u mean?

Steff
02-05-2005, 03:49 AM
nothing to talk about...

but i'm sure you're problems will leave u. don't know when, but they will.

Affi
02-05-2005, 03:56 AM
i also think, ...
but when? /images/graemlins/grin.gif

Steff
02-05-2005, 04:49 AM
i have no idea...

maybe some day u wake up and all ur problems are gone...

Affi
02-05-2005, 05:00 AM
i hope that will happen tomorow! /images/graemlins/grin.gif

iamnaomie
02-07-2005, 02:01 AM
[ QUOTE ]
Hi,
I’ve got many problems - again! /images/graemlins/grin.gif
Once I always was happy, but now I'm not more very often.
I don't know why.
At first I thought it only would be a short stage but it is not, its already for a long time.
There r so many things which r disturbing me.
Sometimes I think nobody does recognise me and if then they don't belive me what I say.
Nobody does takes me serious. Nobody: Not my friends, not my family, nobody, ...
Do u know the feelding u don't belong where u r?
Do u know that? Thats that, what I always feel the last time.
And if I want to talk to a friend about all my problems I can't. I don't know y.
I know I could trust them and I do ... but if I want to tell them something I'm not able to, I don't know y.
...
Do u know the feeling to think u r different than the other people. Different on an other way.
There r many people who r different than the other people, but most they r different on a nice way. But I feel often I'm different on a way which is not normal!
And an other problem is, that I'm not able make a deep friendship.
If somebody comes near to me (emotional) then most I go one step back. A psychological friend from me says, that I'm scared to loose a person like I've lost already, but I don't think its the right way always to go a step back.

And:
Do u know that feeling?
U like some body or its more than that and u want to be together with that person. This person also wants to and if u r together it doesn't work, but if u r not together it also doesn't work.
This moment I feel so and it makes me frustrated! /images/graemlins/frown.gif

And I've also still got the other problems, but I don'T want to write them here because they r all in the other Threads form me. /images/graemlins/wink.gif

Please don't think I'm crazy or anything else, because I'm not. I'm only a guy who has got problems with everything around him! ^^
cu,
Andi

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wow i scareily relate to everything you said! you just made me realize reasons why i cant get close to friends. i have lost alot of family members my grandfathers and my uncle in the passed 2 years. also in december i lost a friend that i really cared about and liked. now i feel like i am friendly to people, but i cant access that friend connection. i feel like i have a block that says "back off" also friends who i thought were my freinds stopped or betrayed me in a way. thats probly why i have trouble wanting friends, becuase im afriad of loosing them. that never crossed my brain b4 but it all makes sense now! the friend that passed away was special to me and i guess it was the last straw by brain could take when it came to losses. you made my brain go "click" i thought somehting was wrong with me but i realize its normal for you to be afriad to loose someone you get close to.
see your problems are helping me with my problems! thanks. and i also feel like i dont belong, i always have. sometimes i wish i was adopted and that i belong somewhere else, but not here. everyone goes through chrises and theres alot of people that feel the same as you /images/graemlins/wink.gif

Affi
02-07-2005, 05:32 AM
i'm happy that could help you also if i didn'T know that i've! /images/graemlins/grin.gif