the guy of my dreams has a girlfriend :(

[smiling_sushi]

yup exactly the way to put it.......
i spent ages last night crying, and i think keep on thinking i will be ok and i can deal with it but then he mentions her name and i just get thrown back and really upset.
we dont really see eachother much face to face because he lives like an hour away (so we talk on msn a lot) and before he got a girlfriend we were going to arrage to meet up... but now i dont think i can... cos if i saw him i think i ould want him more but i know he has a gf...
and i had a dream last night that we were together and i was happy when i woke up but then i rememberd about his gf and i just felt like crying again.......
and i cant talk to my friend who i usually would about it cos shes on holiday for another few days and i hve no way of contacting her :(
i tried talking to my other friend but its just not the same.........
no body understands how much i like him

[Shaunzo]

Please, do not give up hope. There may be a chance that this person's relationship may not work out and you will take him up after all. not every relationship works out for the better all the time.

[Pooh_bear]

Oh sweetie. I know it must be hard for you. I hope it all works out for you.

[Emy]

Hey, hello :-)!

I think that you've got two choices:
1-) you wait him in pain, with no certitude he'll marry her one day, and you waste the precious time of your life which you could spend with another boy who merit you.
2-) You get use to the idea of he was not your destiny (I know: more easy to say it than to do it!), and you search another boy who leave nearly your house.
Internet can be something very fun when you're behind you're screen coz you can meet many people. But it's something virtual, and not always the truth... Be wary of that, coz' any people can disapointed you in beeing another people than the one you thought! (sorry, i don't speak english very well ^^,)

GOOD LUCK ;-)

[sammypoo1]

aww im so sorry i know exactly how u feel :( i know how hard it is, how whenever u think about that guy it makes u sooo happy but then when u think about him the gf comes into ur thoughts as well and its as if ur whole world has been torn away.

no one says that he is going to be with his gf forever and just hope that he won't be. i know that sounds mean but it should be one of those things that makes everything look a little brighter.

also, does he have any idea how u feel and have u ever met him before?

i totally understand where u are coming from, it happenend to me a few years back and everyday i felt so unhappy and unwanted, but after a while i managed to get over it, i don't know how, and now i have my bf and he is perfect for me. i have been with him for 2 years and we are perfect for each other.

who knows, maybe this is leading u to a different path to what u are meant to follow. just trust ur heart and follow it, don't follow ur head because after all its ur heart that makes all of the important decisions.

i hope this helps and ill send u a pm so we can chat a bit more,

sammy :D

[kavz]

awwwww
i think that you should confront him, telling him - because if anything were to happen with this other girl then you will be more heart broken than ever,
when telling him, he will know that you are fragile and that you may be hurting,
he may be more conforting,

but at the end of the day, take each day as it comes, and whatever id in your destiny, will happen,who knows i guess,after this girl, if you ever meet you may be together!!

all the best to you, im sori of your situation!
who knows you may even find someone better than him!

[shadygurl225]

:( It’ll be okay. Trust me, I’ve been in that situation before, and I know it really sucks. But he won't be with his gf forever, so who knows what lies in your future. But if it doesn't work out, it just wasn't meant to be. Though you may not realize it now, there are soo many other guys out there, and eventually you'll meet the right one. I hope everything works out!

[allysaluvu]

aww u'll b fine....:(

[rocco]

I hope u feeling better now.For now all u can do is just befriend him.Who knows if his relationship dont work out then maybe u have a chance.Dont forget bout the blessing that u have him as a friend..

[Spancill Hill]

Don't worry, the girl I have a crush on is straight.:D I think.