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tinkerbell_jellybean
09-05-2005, 10:52 AM
there's this girl at school that's been bullying me, and i told a teacher, they didn't do anything, and i told my friends and they did (i haven't been in the same room as this girl for ages!)
it's the last day of the six weeks holidays and my mum has just got a phone call telling her that me and my friends have been bullying this girl and she is scared to go back to school tomorrow. this is the strangest thing i've ever heared because everyone knows i'm not like that. but this doesn't stop me feeling upset, because she was bullying me, and now i'm getting the blame for it!!!!!!!
i don't know what to do!!! please help! i need someone to talk to, but i don't know who!
Gen xXx
Pooh_bear
09-05-2005, 11:38 AM
I was bullied when i was in junior school and know how hard this must be for you. You need to talk to the headmaster and your parents. And maybe try to get a meeting set up between your parents and the other girls parents. I hope this all works out for you.
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Pooh
sammypoo1
09-05-2005, 11:57 AM
hey hun u know u can pm me whenever u need to talk to someone im always here :D as for these girls i think u need to get ur family friends who ever and evrybody u possible can to stand up for u, its not right that u should be bullied and its not fair, feel free to pm me :)
geekazoid
09-06-2005, 08:17 AM
Although you feel like the victim, it is often more complicated than that. you feel that she has been bullying you, but she may feel the same way, that you are bullying her and she hasn't done anything wrong. i think you should try and have a meeting with her and a teacher, so you can both explain why you are upset.
geekazoid
09-06-2005, 08:21 AM
i also think the first thing to sort out is what you mean by bullying, have you two been having arguments which left you feeling hurt, or has she been attacking you physically, or emotionaly?
Ronny
09-07-2005, 07:28 AM
Hey Gen, Iam so sorry to hear this me was bulled to when i was 11,12 and 123 years old in secondry school!.. The bulled me coz the city that i live and about my hair! I was young and afriad to talk to the headmasters with lots off bad words. When i climped the 4th year ( i was 14 ) everyone told me that i must be strong iam a big girl if they call you names or bully you we are here a sweet girl! I stopped to them, till they became my friends!!!
You need to talk to the teachers DO NOT do the same thing that i made that doesnt talk to your parenst,teachers,friends or school head coz afraid iam telling you this for your sake! Believe me!
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