Help is needed

[Marinaolby]

I am so hurt and sceard right now, i don't wanna stay here any more i am gonna leave soon, my Parents doesn't let me live, i am not human for them,
Help me please.

[Ozzie]

I am so hurt and sceard right now, i don't wanna stay here any more i am gonna leave soon, my Parents doesn't let me live, i am not human for them,
Help me please.

Where do you live??.......get yourself down to your nearest Community Welfare centre as fast as you can and ask to see a counsellor. That's my advice to you for now. Get help as quick as you can. Then we can take it from there:)

[AlyssaFan4Ever07]

I am so hurt and sceard right now, i don't wanna stay here any more i am gonna leave soon, my Parents doesn't let me live, i am not human for them,
Help me please.

Hey hun! What's wrong? Stay and talk to us. Tell us what's wrong and we will do our best to help you out.


-Amber

[Marinaolby]

My parents live in the past and don't let me grew by myself which is hurts, they can't see that i am not a little kid any more, i live in Israel and to ask help here it meens drive very far couse i live in a city far from where you can ask for help and besides then my parents will think i am just a person who likes to make stuff up which isn't true. My parents sceare me so much every time and i can't live in israel anymore. My parents think that i need to be like they want me to be with out noticing that i am a good person only hurt,i am trying to do what i can but nothing provs them that they can trust me. I meen we got place to ask for help here but my parents then will think that they won or something, which scears me alot.

[Ozzie]

How old are you??. If you're over 18 then you should consider a few things. For one, you're old enough to make your own life. Start making decisions for yourself and doing things for yourself. Stop worrying about what Mum and Dad want. The sooner they realise they can't treat you like a kid anymore, the better things will be. If they don't, well then that's their problem, not yours. Let them deal with it. You have enough to worry about without having them breathing down your throat all the time.

If you do live in a city, there should be plenty of places to get help from......and don't be afraid of what your parents might think of approaching those places. They're only carrying on like they are because they know you're afraid of them. It's their way of controlling everything you do. That's what you have to realise and break free from. Yes it will be hard but if you don't make that attempt to break free, you will find the rest of your life will be very hard.

It's upto you......no one here can make you do anything. You have to take responsibility for yourself and your life. Make the changes needed to get things back ontrack for yourself. No one else can do that for you, only you. We will be here to lend you all the support you may need, as I'm sure your friends in Israel do too.

Good luck:D

[Marinaolby]

I am 19 and my parents never allowed me to speack unless they feel like it, thanks for your help but i can't find anyone who can help me no matter what, i wanna move but i need a green card to America but there is the only place i really wanna live in, this is a place i will be happy in, really happy, i can help there to who needs help couse of what i am going threw and more but in order to do so i need that someone will say that they are hiring me to work for them or something like it or adopt me to there family considering i am only 19 and in america i am still young to live by myself but i don't think it will ever happen, couse who will hire me really or adopt me.
I really need someones help anyones.

[Ozzie]

Do you have any friends you can trust, or someone whom you can trust, that will take you into their place whilst you sort yourself out. Someone who won't tell your parents where you are. If so, pack all the gear that you need, put the rest in boxes, then leave. If you don't, then your life is going to be a misery. You need also to contact your equivalent of a Woman's shelter or organisation that deals with problems such as yours. There has to be one in Israel, there couldn't be none.

In any case, get out of that house. If you want to remain sane and in good health. You just have to.......no questions or buts about it. Worry about emigrating to the US later on. Just get out of that house.

[Angelina_Fan]

I am 19 and my parents never allowed me to speack unless they feel like it, thanks for your help but i can't find anyone who can help me no matter what, i wanna move but i need a green card to America but there is the only place i really wanna live in, this is a place i will be happy in, really happy, i can help there to who needs help couse of what i am going threw and more but in order to do so i need that someone will say that they are hiring me to work for them or something like it or adopt me to there family considering i am only 19 and in america i am still young to live by myself but i don't think it will ever happen, couse who will hire me really or adopt me.
I really need someones help anyones.
Running away to live in another country is never the answer. There is many problems with what you want to do.
How do you know you will be happy in America? Just because you're away from your parents? It doesn't work like that.
Your problems will probably only end up chasing you and making more mess and involving impartial people.
You need to sit your parents down and explain to them how you feel and you all have to make compromises as to how you want to live life.

[sammypoo1]

i think that u don't necessarily need to go to america staright away, just get away from ur parents so u have a chance to get ur head cleared, then u can make reasoned decisions on where u want to move, after all its ur life, and im not going to say moving to america is wrong, by all means do what makes u happiest, just make sure that u have a clear head first :)

[Ozzie]

The problem with that, Angelina_Fan, is she can't sit down with her parents and talk it over. Her parents treat her like property.......like a dog. "Bark when I tell you to", is basically how they treat and see her. It would be a futile exercise even thinking about trying to reason with them.

No one needs nor deserves to be treated like that. If my family had've done that to me, I would've left home and disowned them. And if anyone from the family chased after me, they would've ended up in either two places......prison and/or hospital.

She is far better off leaving home now, trying to settle down elsewhere and then worrying about where she wants to live in the fuure.

[Marinaolby]

Exactly they are acting to me like that, i really need help no matter who helps just help couse they are not stoping to act to me like a property and they say that i am acting wrong and because i am sceard i almost start believing them even if actualy they are, it always gets much and much worse, who ever can help me i will be greatful to him or her forever, i am so sceard here.