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[Alyssas_number1fan]

last year my cousin told me shed tried to kill herself twice 1 in which she was in hospital for over 3 weeks
she now lives with my nan 2 blocks away and hasnt spoken about it since we are really close but i dont want to bring it up again because i dont really want her to remember those bad memories
i believe i am the only one who knows of us cousins her sisters and brother i think knows as do the rest of the adults in my family but no one talks about it understandably
i just feel really closed in and im just scared she may go back to that place

also recently my foster brother and sisters have left and the social worker is accusing my mum of loads od **** mad by my little **** of a foster brother and my mum is forever yelling and my cousin gets what im feeling but she cant say nothing because my mum and my nan are the only ones who officially know me and my cousin came across it on an message when we came back from gymnastics last week

sorry for loading you with my problems i just think if i was to write it down it'd be better

[GLL1987]

If your cousin doesn't wish to talk about it then don't approach her about it, i'm sure she will come to you and talk about it in her own time when she feels most comfortable, we all like to forget about the things we regret doing and maybe it's for the best because we can just move on with our lives.

Maybe you could go and talk to your mum or nan about your foster brother if you're worried about it, i'm sure they will understand.

If you're worried and want to talk at all, feel free to PM me.

Take care,
Grace