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gurlygrl_198907
02-05-2007, 04:14 PM
So I like this guy who is a friend of mine. He knows that I like him and he's known for a while but he still hasn't asked me out and it's been about two months since i've started liking him as more than a friend. Our friendship definitely comes over a romantic relationship but I still want to see if a romantic relationship might work out. He is also REALLY shy when it comes to girls so I think that maybe he's just afraid of rejection which is why i've decided to ask him out. Next week is Valentine's Day and I kind of want a valentine but at the same time next friday is this thing called Bandfest so I want to ask him to go to that with me. My problem is I don't know how to do it and keep it discreet because our friends are all in the same circle and it's hard to get him alone and i don't want to embarress him or myself in front of our friends. I don't want to do it the middle school way either writing it on paper and then have circle one yes or no?...if u know what i mean...lol. so yea any ideas would be appreciated.:)

Nooker
02-05-2007, 04:23 PM
You do have a dilema. Perhaps when you are eating lunch or waiting for the bus you could bring up the subject of the bandfest & if he shows any interest just say something like would you want to meet & sit together there. It's not really asking him on a date but it could lead to a future date. Plus you'll get an idea about how he's feeling.

chris1990
02-06-2007, 11:29 AM
Good luck, I agree with Nooker.
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FarahJasonFan
02-20-2007, 03:18 PM
I agree too good luck:D