Expression problems

[Imyouridol]

Hello everyone,

I didn't know where to post this but I decided to put it on here.

Today and in these few past days, I'm having huge expression problems...I wanna say a lot of what I feel so deeply and very strong but I can't say nothing decent that even begins to compare to what I feel, then other people say exactly what I ever wanted to say. This is frustating me...I always seem to let my feelings out but today I just can't!!! (for instants: whish a great birthday to Love, I just can't express what I feel, no words are enough... Bummer!)

Do you have any advice on me?

Thanks for your help,
Imyouridol (that was supposed to mean- You're my idol)

[chris1990]

Hi sweetie,
It's normal that you've sometimes expression problems. Everyone have it sometimes and esspecially ar our age. You wanna show your feelings/expressions with words, but sometimes are words not enough or is it difficult to find the right words. Off course, it is frustrating when you can't find the right words and other people say them. But you can also show your expressions with your body, your face. That can say more then hundreds of words. I can speak to a group and say the right words, but when I don't use bodylanguage, people aren't interesting.
And off course, maybe you can write your feelings down of draw it down. Sing songs that express your feelings. That can say a lot.
Hope that this will help.
Big hug and Kiss Christine

[Imyouridol]

Hello Christine

Thanks a lot for helping me out here.That was extremly nice and sweet of you.
I know that sometimes through expression with my face and body that helps.The problem is people also don't seem to notice me so they don't care if I do this or that.

"I can speak to a group and say the right words, but when I don't use bodylanguage, people aren't interesting."

Yeah, that's so right.
I usually write on my own blog but the same problems of expression persist.I love to sing but then again people don't notice me that much and that sucks.

Resulting on the fact that my mum (who was my best friend-she is really cool) works even more hours our relationship got really bad and I can't feel so free to talk to her has I used to...At school I'm just another girl out there and I feel invisable...Where will I have time to say what I feel? Gosh! I'm human I feel, there are things that hurt a lot! That's why today I went to the bathroom at school and cried a lot...I wanna say a lot but no one has a single moment to listen to me, understand me and don't be always judging...

Thanks a lot for your advices :D You're really a sweetheart :D

[Nooker]

There are a lot of people in the world who have trouble expressing themselves so you are not alone. There is no magic cure that will instantly transform you into a great expressionist. Writing on your blog is a good idea. Also does your local college or high school offer any type of self help/awareness courses that you could take? Try joining a civic organization or club. That way you could get involved, gain some confidence in expressing yourself at the meetings & also meet new people & feel useful.

If you feel the need to talk we are always here for you either via this board or a PM.

[Imyouridol]

No, I don't have any self help/awareness courses I can take in my school. Actually my school doesn't even have a ginasium so that would be a big step for them...lol

Yeah, maybe that would be a great idea...I'll search to see what I can find out here in my area...

Thank you also for offering yourself for me to send you a pm message that was the sweetest thing ever...Thanks a loooottt :D

[Nooker]

You're welcome.

[Imyouridol]

*big smile*