what am i gonna do.....

[v3ppp]

today i was upset and 1 of my friends asked if i was alrite and i said yes.
but i found out she and my other friends were saying things behind my back,from other people,and when i told her i was upest by her,she told me to tell her wat she did wrong but i couldnt:confused: dont know why?
and i think because i didnt tell her she is upset with me

so i dont know what to do.

help...

[annalongoria]

i think you should speak to her and tell her about your feelings! Try to describe them, so you can help her and yourself! Say her that your were very upset when you heard that she was saying things behind your back! Maybe that all was just a misunderstanding!

[my_imagination]

hey hey

i agree with annalongoria... communication is the key. just talk to her when you have calmed down a bit.. and take it from there. everyone goes through moments like this at one time or another, so if you need any support you know where to find us :)
take care xx

erika

[chris1990]

hey hey

i agree with annalongoria... communication is the key. just talk to her when you have calmed down a bit.. and take it from there. everyone goes through moments like this at one time or another, so if you need any support you know where to find us :)
take care xx

erika

Don't know what to say more, you're completly right guys.
We are here for you honey!
Kiss

[<^> NJH <^>]

Heya hun, yeh i agree with wat the others have said, you should just explain to her why you are upset and the try to sort it out .. i mean they might not of even said things behind your back, people could be just trying to stir trouble, i hope everything works out for you & remember we are always here for you :).
Love Nadine x.

[v3ppp]

Heya hun, yeh i agree with wat the others have said, you should just explain to her why you are upset and the try to sort it out .. i mean they might not of even said things behind your back, people could be just trying to stir trouble, i hope everything works out for you & remember we are always here for you :).
Love Nadine x.


thanks guys i hope it works but it just has been goin on for 3 years and im annoyed:mad:

[charmed*cabbage]

You definately have to talk to them! i had a situation today where i heard people talking about me, and they thought i didnt hear, but i did! they thought i was ignoring them, and because of this they were ignoring me.. so i talked to a friend that wasnt exactly invloved, and i let it out, and it turned out that it wasnt as bad as i thought, and now i think we are fine. I know people always say it, but you have to tell people how you feel, it does help, not only for you, but also for your friends, they proably wont realise that they have done anything to make you feel like this. And believe me i know its hard to say these things, but you have to..